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October 27, 2010 / solitude01ph

Quick Tip: A Womantra

Lourdes Elardo-Gant

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26, 2010
Volume 1, Issue 30 

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~ A Personal Note From Lourdes: Transformation – Implementation – Gratitude

~ Upcoming Events With Lourdes: Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat
is just one month away!!!!!

~ Magical Manifesting Mentorship Feature Article:
Quick Tip: The Womantra

~ Lourdes Recommends: How To Manifest
A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps

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Hi


I just came back from Money, Marketing and Soul Event in Tucson, Arizona, with my Million Dollar Marketing Coach, Kendall Summerhawk. It was amazing!!!!!!


What I learned from it was about

Transformation – Implementation – Gratitude.


Transformation for me has been huge this weekend when I had a money breakthrough that came as an epiphany, that is, I am really very grateful that I not only have a million dollar mindset but I also have million dollar relationships! This came in a doorway because I am decisive action taker.

Speaking for being a decisive action taker, have you decided yet?!? My Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat® is just One Month away…And Tickets Go UP In 1 Week…

Join me for 3 days this November and I’ll give you the exact steps you need to use to manifest a million dollar husband in a year, six months, a month, a week, even in one day so you can
FINALLY enjoy the love and million dollar lifestyle you deserve….I’m including my magical coaching experience and my groundbreaking mo.ney mindset secrets to help you quickly attract the million dollar man of your dreams. Tickets for this ALL CONTENT workshop are $1,297 but go UP in one week (after November 1) I suggest clicking here now for all of the exciting details.
http://www.lourdeselardo-gant.com/dfdr2010

Love and Light!

Have a better and better day,

Lourdes Elardo-Gant

Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach

P. S. A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who
joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs

Connect with Lourdes …

Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?

Can three days change your life? Yes! If you invest them learning my step-by-step magic formula for attracting my
Million Dollar Man With Ease, Grace and Joy! You are going to learn the fastest way to attract and manifest not only a man who is financially free but help you to create the romantic relationship of your dreams once and for all so you can be the “Divine” feminine that you already are!
It’s all included in my LIVE Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat (DFDR), happening this November 27, 28, 29, 2010. Whether you’re single or you’re already in a relationship DFDR is the ONLY workshop where you can leap into an exciting new relationship level, giving up the exhausting masculine approach to romance that just doesn’t work for us women. My signature combination of Divine Feminine principles and proven attraction steps will work like magic to help you
effortlessly manifest your relationship success — I promise!

* Hotel *

We are making arrangements at one of our favorite hotels – King Fisher Spa & Resort, kingfisherspa.com. If you have not been at this hotel, get ready for an experience all of its own.


Here’s a sneak peek of the beautiful hotel where you’ll be staying for this
LIVE Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat event…

This hotel is so fabulous that I actually encourage you to come a few days before or stay a few days after to give yourself some time to prepare for or reflect on everything you learned. I’m a huge believer of “artist’s date” because I know that when we feed our soul, it’s easier to fill our desires!

Located on the eastern shore of Vancouver Island in the Comox Valley, the Resort showcases the true essence of West Coast vacationing with 64 beachfront & ocean view rooms, a full
service spa, the Pacific Mist Hydropath® & waterfront dining at its finest. The Pacific Mist Hydropath®, unique to North America, is an hour long hydrotherapy experience moving through eight sandstone sculpted water features that relax, detoxify & remineralize the body. Access to outdoor activities in the area include: skiing, kayaking, biking, fishing & golf. Resort dining showcases local seasonal products & fresh seafood & offers stunning ocean & mountain views.


Imagine coming home from an event feeling relaxed and ready,

knowing EXACTLY what to do to manifest the man of your dreams!

You will get more information about our special room rate and all the details after you register for the retreat. Don’t wait any longer! Register today and start manifesting the man of your dreams immediately!

I suggest you mark the date now! But I must warn you now, DFDR is NOT your typical “feel hype only in a weekend” event. I will be diving deeply into your relationship “stuff.” Plus, provide you with a pleasure palace, live “Goddess Gathering” practices with me and your divine sisters, step-by-step magic, charmed secrets, my simple Signature Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps.

October 26, 2010, Speaking at Parksville Community Center

Topic: “Relationships & Law of Attraction”

November 2 – 4, 2010, Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las
Vegas, Nevada

MARK YOUR CALENDAR: November 26, 27, 28 2010, Leading my
Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat
in Beautiful British Columbia!

December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011, Australia holiday

January 3 – 15, 2011, New Zealand/Australia Cruising with
Abraham-Hicks Group


February 7 – 9, 2011 Diamond Retreat in Royal Palms,
Scottsdale, Arizona with my Million Dollar Coach, Kendall Summerhawk.


February 24, 2011, Speaking at Courtenay Recreation Center
about Relationship & Law of Attraction.

Quick Tip: The Womantra

Because of I just came back from an intensive Money, Marketing, and Soul event and having a Relationship & Law of Attraction workshop tonight, I’m skipping my usual feature-length article in favor of something a little different. With so much opportunities and blessings coming my way, I decided to share a Mama Gena’s favorite wo-mantra with you, to help you attract the million dollar relationship of your dreams this week:

I am beautiful

I am rich, and

I have everything I want.

Thank you, Goddess.

The earth is mine for the taking.

No more cooking, cleaning, or baking

Unless I want to, unless I want to.

Sex is for my satisfaction.

Give me a guy who can give me some action

I always want to, unless I don’t want to.

Freedom is new. Freedom is mine.

Freedom is absolutely divine.

Freedom is here. Freedom is now.

Freedom is the cat’s meow!

Create your own womantra, your own personal statement of yourself as a woman. Womantras don’t have to rhyme. They don’t have to make sense. They are for yourself just to entertain you and inspire you.

Love and Light!

Have a better and better day,


Lourdes Elardo-Gant
,

Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach

P. S.  If you haven’t
submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ

P. P. S. I recommend these resources:

Money Breakthrough Method
http://lourdeselardo-gant.com/mbm

Easiest way to jumpstart your finding a million dollar husband is w/ money breakthrough from @kendallcoach–FREE video series.

How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps

Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?

Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?

My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with. Learn all about it here by clicking now!

Magical Manifesting Mentor, Lourdes Elardo-Gant, is an
award-winning, sought after International Law of Attraction Coach.

Lourdes delivers simple ways women can manifest the man of their dreams,
and design their relationships so they can turn their life into that of
an amazing Goddess and powerful feminine Divine being. Lourdes’
ground-breaking programs and products have helped women create more
time, happiness, and freedom both in their personal lives AND in their
business.

Lourdes lovingly delivers her “magical manifesting mentorship” message
which says that every woman deserves to have a man who will support her
spiritually, emotionally, financially, as well as help her to make her
life the best that she can be.

Lourdes is the author of the book and CD series, Immigration Magic &
Immigrant’s Success Secrets, and the author of the amazing program “How
to Manifest a Million Dollar Husband in 10 Magical Steps.”

Lourdes is the perfect model for attracting a Million Dollar Man and a
quality of life that includes plenty of free time to love and be with
her beloved son, Elan Alexander, her husband, Eric, her friends in
Canada, and her family in the Philippines, United States, and Australia.

©
2010 Lourdes Elardo-Gant – All Rights Reserved 

Address: 4097 Gartley Point Road, Courtenay, BC V9N 9T2 Canada

Email: lourdes@speakingwithlourdes.com

October 4, 2010 / solitude01ph

5 Tips to Having a Better Relationship with Money

Volume 1 Issue 27

A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women
and Divine entrepreneurs.

In This Issue:

~ A Personal Note from Lourdes: Refresher! Law of Attraction (LOA) 101 For Women

~ Upcoming Events:
Mark Your Calendar! Lonely No More Teleseminar Series Classes Start October 5, 2010

~ Feature Article: “5 Tips To Have A Better Relationship With Money ”


Personal Note:Sharing My Gifts


Last week, I had the chance to be with Goddesses in our local
recreation center and spoke about Law of Attraction 101 for women.
It’s always great to have a refresher of what Law of Attraction is
about. Basically, it is also called Law of Vibration. What is
vibration then? Simply put, a mood or a feeling. You can watch a
short clip of how I started the workshop from this

1minute video
.

What’s different when I teach LOA is to never forget their values
or heart virtues. One of my mentors shared…..

“Do you know the legend of Atlantis?

One of the legends of Atlantis goes like this…The people of Atlantis cultivated and deeply raised their consciousness. In fact, just prior to the beginning of the legend, the first real Initiates into this Earth realm, a group of beings with high Awareness decided that this pretty blue planet looked quite interesting. Before you knew it, a group of them had squeezed through from the expansiveness of where they were to the dense location of this incredible place. Some people called this place Mu, others called it Atlantis. With much work and experience, the beings of Atlantis raised their Awareness to Crystalline Consciousness. The people raised a particular spectrum of their consciousness to a higher realm, and they vibrated there.

They rose quickly to great heights…But, guess what they forgot?
They forgot their Heart. They forgot the simplicity of
their humanity
.

In this connection, I would like to invite you to remember your
heart and would love for you to take this opportunity to join us in our 2 week course teleseminar series

“LONELY NO MORE: Stop Yearning & Start Finding Your Soulmate!

Register NOW: http://tinyurl.com/29dtdl7

Love and Light!

Have a better and better day,

Lourdes Elardo-Gant
Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach

P. S. A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs

P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can
download the questions here: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ

Upcoming Events With Lourdes

“Lonely No More!”
Stop Yearning And Start Finding Your
Soulmate To Share Your Life With

This 4 part teleseminar series is a cutting edge approach to finding your true love. What if it were possible to meet the man of your dreams? In this course you will learn:

  • A fail-proof guide for any woman to create a fulfilling
    relationship that lasts.
  • Answer questions single women face like: Why am I attracted to the wrong kind of guy? Why is he just not that into me? Why can’t I seem to find the One?

In this 4 part teleseminar series I will coach you through a 2 week program that shows how to:

  • Avoid the number one dating mistake that single women make
  • Break fatal dating patterns that ruin any chance of lasting love
  • Empower yourself through creation of your pleasure palace
  • Do the single most important thing you can to find love. It’s the opposite of what all the self-help books say
  • Develop your own powerful and personalized dating plan that includes meeting lots of successful and caring or even a million dollar men!

Forget your dating past, gather yourself together, and learn how to create the love you want NOW!

October 5, 7, 12, and 14 – conducting my LONELY NO MORE
Teleseminar Series

October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s
Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona

November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event
in Las Vegas, Nevada

Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading
my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!

December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday

January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising
with Abraham-Hicks Group

Feature Article: “5 Tips To Have A Better Relationship With Money” by Lourdes Elardo-Gant

In my pursuit of continuing personal development, I am being trained (from October to December) to be a Certified Money Breakthrough Method Coach. My intentions for taking this program is to help women have a better relationship with money so they can attract a Million Dollar Husband (if they want one!) or just enjoy having more money for a better quality of life! So for this week’s article I’d like to give you 5 tips on how to get started with that!

Tip #1. Notice your vocabulary around money. In Law of
Attraction, we say that words become thoughts, thoughts become vibration (or mood/feeling), and vibration gives you results. Are your vocabulary around money positive or negative? Do you notice expansion (appreciation, joy, relaxation, abundance, relief) or contraction (fear, doubt, worry, resentment, avoidance) in your money language?

Tip #2. Clean up your practical money clutter.Do you have bills piled up because you’re avoiding ‘em? Go get one folder and collect all your bills in one spot.

Tip #3. Complete your money “unresolved situations.” Do you owe someone money? Are you avoiding to pay it? This needs to be completed rather than relinquishing your money power. Rather than delaying to deal with it, set a time and confront this situation.

Tip #4. Let your “loose change” flow! You can find loose change in your car, purse, pockets, old purses. Cash ‘em for bigger bills or spend it. Money needs to circulate and flow. Do this in the next 7 days!

Tip #5. Prepare for increase. I believe that the more money you have, the more ability you have in helping more people. From now on, practice asking for more! For instance, ask for a raise (if you have a job) when you know you deserve it. Remember the quote, ask and you shall receive!

Lourdes Recommends

Money Breakthrough Method
http://lourdeselardo-gant.com/mbm


“Easiest way to jumpstart your finding a million
dollar husband is w/ money breakthrough from @kendallcoach
–FREE video series.

How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps

Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?

Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?

My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar
husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.

Learn all about it here by clicking now!

September 28, 2010 / solitude01ph

What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 3

Volume 1 Issue 26

A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.

In This Issue:

~ A Personal Note from Lourdes: Sharing My Gifts

~ Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 3

~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! LONELY NO MORE Teleseminar Series Classes Start October 5, 2010!

Personal Note: Sharing My Gifts

West Cost Tradeshow

This was my booth from the 1st annual West Coast Women’s Show where I had the honor to speak in front of Goddesses about Relationships & Law of Attraction! It never seems to amaze me how I feel energized when people give me feedback that they get so much inspiration after hearing my story. I also shared this same story from last week’s preview call so if you haven’t listened to it yet, now is the time to do so. Check it out now because today is the last day that it’s going to be posted online. Here’s the link: http://tinyurl.com/299rtb7

In this call I also shared an opportunity for you to join us in our 2 week course teleseminar series “LONELY NO MORE: Stop Yearning & Start Finding Your Soulmate” If you have the BURNING DESIRE to change your love life on or before Christmas, then register NOW: paypal.com/cgi-bin/webs…

Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 3 by Lourdes Elardo-Gant

Here’s Pattern #11. Jealousy Trap. Somehow there is always a triangle: when you’re interested in a guy, there’s some other girl who is drawing his attention and it makes you scared and mad and jealous as heck. In this pattern, you’re not the other woman (for that, see “Crumbs”). You could actually have the whole enchilada with this guy, but instead of building a future with him, you drive the whole relationship downhill with your paranoid thinking, sulking, and jabbing accusations. In fact, you drive the guy right into the arms of your competitor. Here’s what you really believe: You think that every man’s fundamentally a player and, more to the point, that no one is really going to choose you. At its heart, jealousy is a belief that you are not good enough to be claimed.

Jealousy Trap Warning Sign. Your thoughts always stray to the other woman and what your guy is really doing or wants to do with her; you feel tense and irritable.

Here’s Pattern #12. Just Buddies. You have no trouble at all meeting men. They treat you like a buddy, watch and play sports with you, or even ask you to play love counselor for them as they pine for another girl. You may have male colleagues with whom you spend a lot of time because you’re a workaholic, just like them. You don’t flirt or give those female “go” signals, even if you like a guy. But you definitely talk a lot and spend time together. What’s wrong with this picture? The men always marry somebody else – and you do not have a good time at the weddings.

Some of the more common beliefs behind the Just Buddies pattern are: “I am not womanly,” I am not attractive, sensual or sexual and “No guy would be interested in me.”

Just Buddies Warning Sign. Getting dressed up and beautiful for a date makes you feel truly strange and uncomfortable, like you are not being the real you.

Here’s Pattern #13. The Grass Is Greener. You meet guys with potential, but you always have this nagging feeling that if you choose one of them, you are foreclosing on all your other options. You’re sure that the imaginary men you lose out on are much better than the guy you have in hand. You’re afraid you will end up settling for an ordinary or boring relationship – the worst possible thing in the world to you. So instead, you end up confused and incapable of choosing anyone.

In this pattern, you may feel more comfortable in long-distance relationships because your options are more open. You are wildly ambivalent about your partner: one moment you feel like he is the One, the next you feel trapped and resentful. As the relationship progresses, you find more and more faults and reasons to leave. This is the classic commitment phobia running your life.

Grass Is Greener Warning Sign. You are constantly thinking, thinking, thinking – analyzing your boyfriend and comparing him to an imagined or real guy who seems to be so much better.

September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101

October 5, 7, 12, and 14 – conducting my LONELY NO MORE Teleseminar Series

October 17, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Valley Home Based Businesses Association about Relationships & Law of Attraction

October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona

November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada

Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!

December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday

January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising with Abraham-Hicks Group

Love and Light!

Have a better and better day,

Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach

P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ

P. P. S. I recommend this resource:

How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps

Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?

Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?

My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.

Learn all about it here by clicking now!

September 21, 2010 / solitude01ph

What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 2

Volume 1 Issue 25

A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.

In This Issue:

~ A Personal Note from Lourdes:Celebrating Elan’s FIRST Birthday!

~ Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 2

~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! September 21, 2010 “Lonely No More!” Teleseminar Series SPECIAL CALL

Personal Note: Celebrating Elan’s FIRST Birthday!

Elan's First Birthday

There’s nothing like celebrations! Yesterday we celebrated my son, Elan, first birthday. Here he is opening his first gift from “dada.” I appreciate the learnings and experiences he teaches me everyday and for him choosing me to be his mom. It’s been a year since I birth him in our home and I can say that it’s one of the most wonderful things that ever happened to me. I am a proud momma! ? To share my celebration with you I have a scholarship for you! So if you are ready to know details about our Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat and at the same time start learning finding your soulmate, listen in during our “LONELY NO MORE: Stop Yearning & Start Finding Your Soulmate” special f*ree call TODAY, September 21, 5-6pm PST, where you will get more information! Here are your conference access number: 1-402-237-5893 with your conference passcode: 911641.

Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 2 by Lourdes Elardo-Gant

Pattern #7. The Safety Net. A guy is crazy about you but you really think he’s too: (a) nerdy; (b) ugly; (c) crazy; (d) uneducated; or (e) unsuccessful – and therefore, beneath you. But you start seeing him because you feel like he’ll never leave you. In this pattern the guy is your safety choice – y ou really don’t care for the sucker. If truth be told, you’re embarrassed when your speed-dial friends meet him. But the guy does whatever you want, sees the movies you like, cooks for you, and provides some kind of security and companionship. Deep down you may believe that you’re the one who is not good enough and this is the best you’re ever going to do. You also may be terrified of commitment.

There are two possible endings in the Safety Net:

  1. You finally come face-to-face with the real void in your chemistry and decide you have to let him go. You put it off, agonizing about not hurting him, but your real worry is that maybe this is the best you’re gonna get – why let go of him, only to be crushed out there? Finally you do the nasty deed, feeling guilt ridden and afraid.
  2. He turns himself inside out to please you. Maybe he goes to school, gets a makeover, or gets a good job. As he grows, his self-esteem picks up. Then – surprise, surprise – he dumps you for the blond girl he sat next to in class. All of a sudden he looks good to you, and you’re amazed that you feel so upset. Unfortunately, you realize that you’re a day late and a euro short.

Safety Net Warning Sign. You only notice how hot your Safety Net could be when he is talking or flirting with another girl at a party.

Pattern #8. Not Perfect – I’ll Pass. Your best friend talks you into signing up for online dating. You interact with a number of men and quickly back out of seeing them because of various defects that each one has: this guy is too cynical, that one has bad teeth, the other anxiously spilled his Espresso Macchiato Grande all over his shirt. The reality is that you don’t even give them a chance to emerge and be who they are. No one is good enough.

Now you are not going to agree with the next point, but bear with me: You unconsciously project your own feelings of inadequacy onto each guy you meet or date. The flaw in them becomes blinding, completely and totally turning you off. You run. And your reactions are nothing more than defensive maneuvers designed to guard against being rejected yourself. Then you wonder why there are no good guys out there. I know, I know, this last part is not really you, right?

Not Perfect – I’ll Pass Warning Sign. You keep wondering why a woman like you who has so much going for her is single and alone.

Pattern #9. Chase Me. You meet a guy, have great sex in his king-sized bed, and open up not only sexually but emotionally. Everything is unfolding perfectly. Too perfectly. After the cozy coupling and thre-hour confessionals, you get scared to death. Almost against your own will, you find yourself running away while secretly hoping he’ll chase after you.

Your fear of commitment sufaces like a Loch Ness monster and starts running the show. You pull back and become unavailable, distant, or quiet – or you act crazy and dump him. Even if he acts loving, you insist that he doesn’t really care about you. It happens almost against your own will and for no particular reason.

The Chase Me is all about fear. When you start to fall for someone, you ultimately end up breaking up with him before he can hurt you. This way, you can control the heartbreak. What you really want is for the man you care for to smash through the barricades you’ve thrown up and ride in on his white horse and claim you, even if you are halfway around the world in Tokyo. But you never tell him. You set him up to fail you. Because you’ve pushed him away, he doesn’t chase after you. And you say to yourself and your friends, “I knew it all along.”

Chase Me Warning Sign. You love him, you hate him, you just don’t give a sh*t – and you can’t stop yourself from acting bitchy or distant.

September 21, 2010 – PREVIEW CALL for LONELY NO MORE: Stop Yearning & Start Finding Your Soulmate To Share Your Life With!

September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction

September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101

October 5, 7, 12, and 14 – conducting my LONELY NO MORE Teleseminar Series

October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona

November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada

Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!

December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday

January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising with Abraham-Hicks Group

Love and Light!

Have a better and better day,

Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach

P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ

P. P. S. I recommend this resource:

How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps

Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?

Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?

My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.

Learn all about it here by clicking now!

September 14, 2010 / solitude01ph

What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 1

Volume 1 Issue 24

A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.

In This Issue:

~ A Personal Note from Lourdes:Wisdom Within Goddess Retreat

~ Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 1

~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! September 21, 2010 “Lonely No More!” Teleseminar Series SPECIAL CALL

Personal Note: Wisdom Within Goddess Retreat

Wisdom Within Goddess Retreat

I was fortunate to spend last weekend with 12 Goddesses (I’m at the far right in my dreamy turquoise dress) in Sooke, BC where I spoke about Relationships & Law of Attraction. There’s nothing more powerful than being energized in divine feminine juice energy! So if you are ready to know details about our Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat and at the same time start learning finding your soulmate, listen in during our “LONELY NO MORE” special f*ree call on September 21, 5-6pmPST, where you will get more information! Here are your conference access number: 1-402-237-5893 with your conference passcode: 911641.

Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 1 by Lourdes Elardo-Gant

Pattern #2: The Fantasy Relationship. You are crazy about and intensely focused on a man who really has no romantic interest in you. It could be a guy you used to date, a co-worker, someone you see at the gym, or sometimes even a star, like Brad Pitt. If he’s an old boyfriend, you daydream about what you used to do with him and/or fantasize about what he is doing, how it is “really meant to be,” and the amazing “bond” you two have. You fantasize about how he is “maturing” or “fulfilling his potential” and how he’ll definitely come back to you.

If it’s a guy you’re often around, you ignore any signs of his lack of interest and concoct elaborate meanings for whatever he says or does to indicate that he has feelings for you. How he stayed late at the office to help with your overdue project, or how he gave you that special smile and let you skip in front of him in line for a treadmill. It goes on and on like this for months, maybe even years. In the Brad Pitt scenario, you become a raving fan with a shrine in your room – maybe you even start a fan club.

In the fantasy relationship this guy takes up all of your romantic attention. You think and talk about him all the time. But he never asks you out or comes on to you. And you certainly don’t start anything that shows your real infatuation with him. But you expect something magical to happen that will shift this relationship into a Cinderella happily-ever-after. The magical and irrational thinking that underlie this pattern keep you and your life on “hold” and out of reality.

Fantasy Relationship Warning Sign. Down deep you feel empty, sad, and – if you are honest – angry, rejected, and heartbroken by your so-called partner.

Pattern #3: Crumbs. In this pattern you are involved with a guy (maybe he is married or a hot irresistible player) who sees you occasionally and only when it work in his schedule. If you pay close attention you may see that he is a flaming narcissist who does not seem to know that anyone outside of himself really exists. He may go through the motions, but fundamentally, he’s not really interested in anything about your life.

For the most part, he treats you well when he is with you. If he’s wealthy, he may buy you Manolos or take you to five-star dinners. He may take you to the Promised Land in bed. But he’s never available when you need or want him (Mr. Big played this role, doling out crumbs to Carrie in Sex in the City). And he cuts you off if his wife or his “old flame” enters the scene. The Crumbs scenario is the exact opposite of what happens in a real, loving relationship, where you and your needs come first and foremost.

This pattern causes you a great deal of sadness and pain, yet you think that overall it’s a good deal. You spend a lot of time thinking and fantasizing about him: how he’s going to leave his wife or stop being a player, or cut back on his work schedule and be with you in a rose – covered cottage or on the beach in Maui. Of course, he does make noises or promises in that direction. In the meantime, you may even get involved with a really nice guy who cares for you and wants to be in a serious and committed relationship. But secretly you’ve given your heart to the fantasy man who gives you crumbs and not to the real man who is prepared to do everything in his power for you. Ultimately, this pattern will destroy the real relationship you have and you will continue to be a beggar at love’s feast. You’d never admit it, even to your bestfriend, but you believe that this second-class status is the very best you’ll ever be able to get and you’re damn lucky to have it.

Crumbs Warning Sign. Your partner is always “making it up” to you for time spent away, holiday missed, or being with another woman.

Pattern #4: The Hermit. You’re too busy. Between work, the guy, and walking Max, your dog, you don’t have any time for a social life. At the end of the long day you need to collapse with Max on the sofa in your apartment, wolf down your dinner, and click the remote to find a pseudo-life on TV. You signed up on Match.com but never used it because you were too busy or exhausted whenever you thought of it. You think, Someday I’ll get around to finding a great relationship, and that takes care of your worries about it. You barely have any sex drive left at all – the darn machinery down there has gotten so rusty. But it’s fine. You can take care of yourself. Really.

A Hermit maybe very shy or even socially phobic. Being intimate scares her so much that she hides and avoids contact. All of these fears are masked under the guise of being Ms. Independent.

Hermit Warning Sign. You get more pleasure out of watching a romantic comedy by yourself or with your friends than actually flirting with guys or going out on dates.

Watch out for next week’s issue for Patterns # 5, 6, 7, and 8 🙂

September 20, 2010 – Celebrating Elan’s FIRST birthday!!!!!

September 10 – 12, 2010 – Speaking at www.wisdomwithin.ca Women Inspiring Women Goddess Retreat

September 21, 2010 – PREVIEW CALL for Finding Your Soulmate In 6 Months or Less!

September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction

September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101

October 5, 7, 12, and 14 – conducting my LONELY NO MORE Teleseminar Series

October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona

November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada

Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!

December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday

January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising with Abraham-Hicks Group

Love and Light!

Have a better and better day,

Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach

P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ

P. P. S. I recommend this resource:

How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps

Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?

Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?

My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.

Learn all about it here by clicking now!

September 7, 2010 / solitude01ph

How To Trust And Let Everything Fall Easily Into Place

Volume 1 Issue 23

A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.

In This Issue:

~ A Personal Note from Lourdes:“Home Sweet Home”

~ Feature Article: How To Trust And Let Everything Fall Easily Into Place

~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! September 21, 2010 “Lonely No More! Stop Yearning And Start Finding Your Soulmate To Share Your Life With.” Teleseminar Series PREVIEW CALL

Personal Note: “Home Sweet Home”

Elan and Grandparents

There’s no place like home! I’m back in North America and here’s a picture of my parents (with my son, Elan) who landed in Canada first time last weekend. I must admit eventhough I love travelling it always feels good to have a base where I can relax and enjoy our “home sweet home” in Vancouver Island 🙂 I’m happy to be able to travel with my husband and son and enjoy my parents’ presence because of the lifestyle I have. As a result of my holiday I had a divine inspiration during my vacation. We are launching a teleseminar series especially for you! If you are looking to attract the relationship of your dreams then this teleseminar series is for you! Introducing the Lonely No More! Stop Yearning And Start Finding Your Soulmate To Share Your Life With.” teleseminar series! Details soon….watch out for it!

Feature Article: How To Trust And Let Everything Fall Easily Into Place by Katherine Dever

It’s a sunny day in Ecuador, Natasha’s inner guidance tells her to rest this afternoon and meditate on a full and life-changing week of experiences, healing and cleansing. But her mind tells her to get some money changed. Her energy becomes scattered and she trawls the bustling hot streets, visiting 10 different banks before finally giving up, exhausted, harassed and with no fruits for her efforts. In fact, when she stops and takes a deep breath, she realises that she can change her money at the airport the following day when she flies to Peru. This is a typical, all too common and microcosmic example of how we take the path of struggle when we fail to trust and follow our intuition.

So, let me ask you a question, do YOU trust?

It’s one thing to think you do trust on the surface of things; but do you truly feel deep inside that you are safe in the arms of life, and that you are guided, protected and abundantly supported with everything you could ever need to live life effortlessly, richly, and beautifully?
If the answer is no or not sure- ask yourself what would you be doing, saying and feeling if you could allow yourself to lean into life and let it catch you?

If we live constantly fearing or worrying that no one and nothing can support us properly then that is exactly what we create, and we get to experience the evidence of that in our hologram- and be right 😉

But if we allow ourselves to breathe, relax, and allow then we can be held up and supported by Love- by the infinite organizing power of Life- and we open ourselves up to experience and receive guidance from our inner selves, it’s not always rational, but if you enter into a place where you can trust it you will find a shift in your life that changes everything- Life becomes magical, easy and abundant.

If you think about it none of us would last very long without our primary need for survival- the air we breathe. But we don’t panic or question where our next breath is going to come from or whether our heart is going to take its next beat at the right time, or if our blood will flow in the right direction, do we?

And we don’t plant a seed in the garden and then constantly uproot it to check if its growing, or criticise it when it takes time to flower or bear fruit…Yet have you noticed how often we can sabotage our own success by interfering with the creative processes and getting in our own way.
You were meant to blossom as naturally as all the children of the Universe, and with trust all the things you desire, dream of or need fall easily and gracefully into place. It may seem hard to believe- and that is half the battle! When we allow ourselves to feel into this space and live there it is as though life rises up to meet us and the more we can surrender and trust the process the better and better it gets.

In this ‘flow zone’ where we open to the magic of life and live in ‘the gap’ we get to experience many great blessings, opportunities and miracles such as:

  • A sense of connection, gratitude, empathy and love with all life
  • A deep sense of appreciation for our own body, mind and spirit
  • An awareness and desire to use the gifts we have been given
  • Improved, more open and flowing relationships
  • Increased flow of wellbeing, resources, opportunities and support
  • Inspiration, ‘Eureka’ moments, and euphoria
  • Little ‘God-winks’ – synchronicities, nods from the Universe and Divine timing.

However, though all of us are born with a free ticket to the “flow zone” sometimes we forget and become distracted by the fears, worry thoughts, doubts and judgments of the mind and we become tangled up in the illusion that we, and life, are anything less than perfect. We become suspicious that ‘life can really be that good’ and our resistance to letting go and fully trusting manifests as chaos, confusion or struggle so that we burst our own bubble- and get to prove ourselves right 😉

Consciously or subconsciously, these limits we put on our capacity to love, surrender and go with the flow stem from our doubts and self-worth deep inside. On the outside they manifest as:

  • Creative clutter’ or chronic disorganization – Lack of self-trust means you never throw anything out. Letting go is something we need to learn to do with our whole bodies- practice fully giving yourself to life, to your partner, to your work and to yourself, and trust that you are safe and provided for. It’s ok to let things go if they no longer serve you or you don’t love them and it’s time to move on.
  • Illness: Harsh judgments and criticism, bitterness, self-doubt and chronic worry literally manifest in the body as all kinds of ailments- check out “You can Heal your Life” By Louise Hay for more on the subject.
  • Addiction – toxic habits, relationships or behaviours are one of our best distractions for keeping us locked into fear and denial- where we hide and run from ourselves and our greatest gifts by using smoke screens, other people to ‘fix’, or burying our head by losing it to seek comfort or pleasure, numbing us to our feelings (which is our intuition so if we don’t know what we are feeling how can we begin to trust it?).Start taking time to just notice your feelings and give yourself more appreciation – the likelihood is there’s a part of you that just wants your attention and the more you refuse to trust yourself, the further down the spiral you go- and the further you get away from your authentic self and all your good.
  • Arguments, Lawsuits, Dramas: We create/ engage in disputes, rows, battles, traumas to avoid our calling because we don’t believe that we are good enough to answer it. We don’t trust our inherent creativity, our inner knowing, or the goodness of life and other people- and therefore we attract drama, engage in battles and project our fear and insecurities out into the World- a powerfully convincing technique to avoid our greatness.
  • ‘Wounds Projects’: A Wounds project is anything we do that is not from the heart and doesn’t come from love- whether that is doing a job you hate just for the cash, staying with a partner you don’t love just because you feel guilty or doing something that doesn’t align, purely because you feel obliged to- a wounds project is born from your wounds and only drives them deeper. It can be uncomfortable but sacrificing your self is never ever truly service and if you trust that what is in your highest good is in the highest good for all, then you can quickly begin to move out of the victim and the ‘wounds projects’ and start working on and in your joy.

Here is a little prayer I regularly use to help me stay in the flow of trust, its written in the front of my day book and has changed my life:

‘I trust that no matter what happens in my life, it is for my highest good. And no matter what happens in the lives of those I love, it is for their highest good. From all things that are put before us, we shall become stronger and more loving people. I am grateful for all the beauty and opportunity you put into my life. And in all that I do, I shall seek to be a channel for your love.’ (Susan Jeffers)

~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! September 21, 2010 Preview Call for

“Lonely No More!”
Stop Yearning And Start Finding Your Soulmate To Share Your Life With.

This 4 part teleseminar series is a cutting edge approach to finding your true love. What if it were possible to meet the man of your dreams? In this course you will learn:

  • A fail-proof guide for any woman to create a fulfilling relationship that lasts.
  • Answer questions single women face like: Why am I attracted to the wrong kind of guy? Why is he just not that into me? Why can’t I seem to find the One?

In this 4 part teleseminar series I will coach you through a 2 week program that shows how to:

  • Avoid the number one dating mistake that single women make
  • Break fatal dating patterns that ruin any chance of lasting love
  • Empower yourself through creation of your pleasure palace
  • Do the single most important thing you can to find love. It’s the opposite of what all the self-help books say
  • Develop your own powerful and personalized dating plan that includes meeting lots of successful and caring or even a million dollar men!

Forget your dating past, gather yourself together, and learn how to create the love you want NOW! Watch out for the information of the preview call happening on September 21, 2010, 5-6pm US/Canada Pacific Time.

September 10 – 12, 2010 – Speaking at www.wisdomwithin.ca Women Inspiring Women Goddess Retreat

September 21, 2010 – PREVIEW CALL for Finding Your Soulmate In 6 Months or Less!

September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction

September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101

October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona

November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada

Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!

December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday

January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising with Abraham-Hicks Group

You can read it all here – Click this to read the newsletter: Sparkle Magic & Wisdom In Relationships Ezine

Remember to add “lourdes@speakingwithlourdes.com” to your whitelist, safelist, or address book in your e-mail program to ensure you won’t have trouble receiving future issues!

Love and Light!

Have a better and better day,

Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach

P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ

P. P. S. I recommend this resource:

How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps

Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?

Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?

My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.

Learn all about it here by clicking now!

August 31, 2010 / solitude01ph

How To Get A Man’s Attention Fast…Listen To This Audio by Christian Carter

Volume 1 Issue 22

A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.

In This Issue:

~ A Personal Note from Lourdes:On The Road Part 3

~ Feature Article:How To Get A Man’s Attention Fast…Listen To This Audio by Christian Carter

~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?

Personal Note: On The Road Part 3

Lourdes-Tianjin Antique Cultural Street

I am not sure if I shared with you that my husband, Eric, has a recurring dream when he was 17 that his soulmate was a Chinese woman. He had been to the Far East before always looking for this Chinese gal but at no luck. 3 years ago when we met and found out that I am Filipino (but with Chinese looking features! My Dad used to teased me that I got exchanged in the hospital when I was born) he said he was looking at the wrong places! Call it synchronicity or serendipity but most of the time I am mistaken to be Chinese. So to keep it straight, I had this picture taken in Tianjin Antique Cultural Street to keep things straight ? I am wearing this authentic Chinese dress with the Empress Crown (picture above) which is probably my past life! Ha! Talking about synchronicity or serendipity, have you thought why I keep on bombarding you with this idea of designing your own relationship success? It’s no accident you keep on reading about “Attract by Love” VIP Day- LIMITED OFFER because it is for you!

Have you tried getting an attraction and dating plan done and found it a struggle? Maybe got it finished but it didn’t inspire or motivate you? Or perhaps you never got it completed – with not even enough enthusiasm to finish the plan let alone implement it? Or worse still – thought about it but never even got around to it when procrastination loomed large!

Then this VIP intensive is JUST FOR YOU.

Spend less than a day ‘virtually’ with me and I guarantee you will “Attract by Love” for the remainder of the year and manifest your soulmate to you! Not only that but you’ll be so excited about the pleasure possibilities and the impact you’ll make in your relationships you’ll be amazed with the power you already have within you!

Giving attention to your desires is YOUR MOST important role in your love life don’t leave it to chance. Email me with subject line “2010 Attract By Love VIP Day” with your contact details and 2 preferred times to talk and I’ll call you to discuss attracting your soulmate magically customerservice@milliondollarman.ca ONLY 1 spots available for this year – make one of them yours.

Oh, one last thing. You will receive a f~ree bonus of the complete set of “Money Mirror” cards and a 30 minute Money Breakthrough coaching session available exclusively via my Private Platinum Certified Money, Marketing and Soul Coach, Kathleen Ann. This tool will really help you hone your skill to attract a Million Dollar Man – be prepared to get really excited about attracting love this year!!

Feature Article: How To Get A Man’s Attention Fast…Listen To This Audio by Christian Carter

When there’s something you want from your man, whether it’s more attention, or for him to listen to your needs, or for him to STOP doing something, how do you COMMUNICATE that to him?

Do you communicate in a way that compels him to want to get closer and feel more connected to you?

Or, do you communicate in a way that turns him OFF? And do you know the difference between the two?

Listen to this free audio clip from Christian Carter’s interview with psychologist and couples communication expert Mary O’Neill, where she talks about the ONE THING that she sees as a huge TURN OFF for a man when it comes to how a woman asks for something:

http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/interviewseries/mi_sample_maryoneill.asp

This is just one of dozens of incredible insights and tips about communication and how to
talk to a man that you’ll learn when you get a copy of Christian Carter’s complete (one hour plus) interview with Mary O’Neill.

~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?

I am working on the program for my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat and want it to be the best possible experience for clients.

One quick question. What would need to be included for the retreat to be really valuable for you? or Anything else you’d like to share with me?

As a gift for taking time to answer this research, send me an email: customerservice@milliondollarman.ca to receive an audio for one “white magic” I used to manifest my million dollar husband!

I suggest you mark the date now!

Can three days change your life? Yes! If you invest them learning my step-by-step magic formula for attracting my Million Dollar Man With Ease, Grace and Joy! You are going to learn the fastest way to attract and manifest not only a man who is financially free but help you to create the romantic relationship of your dreams once and for all so you can be the “Divine” feminine that you already are!

It’s all included in my LIVE Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat (DFDR), happening this November 27, 28, 29, 2010. Whether you’re single or you’re already in a relationship DFDR is the ONLY workshop where you can leap into an exciting new relationship level, giving up the exhausting masculine approach to romance that just doesn’t work for us women. My signature combination of Divine Feminine principles and proven attraction steps will work like magic to help you effortlessly manifest your relationship success — I promise!

But I must warn you now, DFDR is NOT your typical “feel hype only in a weekend” event. I will be diving deeply into your relationship “stuff.” Plus, provide you with a pleasure palace, live “Goddess Gathering” practices with me and your divine sisters, step-by-step magic, charmed secrets, my simple Signature Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps.

August, 2010 – China Holiday Trip

September 2, 2010 – First preview call for Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat, watch out for more information!

September 10 – 12, 2010 – Speaking at www.wisdomwithin.ca Women Inspiring Women Goddess Retreat

September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction

September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101

October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona

November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada

Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!

You can read it all here – Click this to read the newsletter: Sparkle Magic & Wisdom In Relationships Ezine

Remember to add “lourdes@speakingwithlourdes.com” to your whitelist, safelist, or address book in your e-mail program to ensure you won’t have trouble receiving future issues!

Love and Light!

Have a better and better day,

Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach

P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ

P. P. S. I recommend this resource:

How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps

Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?

Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?

My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.

Learn all about it here by clicking now!