 |
|||||||
|
|||||||
|
©
2010 Lourdes Elardo-Gant – All Rights Reserved Address: 4097 Gartley Point Road, Courtenay, BC V9N 9T2 Canada Email: lourdes@speakingwithlourdes.com |
Tell a Friend!
I just came back from Money, Marketing and Soul Event in Tucson, Arizona, with my Million Dollar Marketing Coach, Kendall Summerhawk. It was amazing!!!!!! 
Join me for 3 days this November and I’ll give you the exact steps you need to use to manifest a million dollar husband in a year, six months, a month, a week, even in one day so you can
October 26, 2010, Speaking at Parksville Community Center
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Volume 1 Issue 27
A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women
and Divine entrepreneurs.
In This Issue:
~ A Personal Note from Lourdes: Refresher! Law of Attraction (LOA) 101 For Women
~ Upcoming Events:
Mark Your Calendar! Lonely No More Teleseminar Series Classes Start October 5, 2010
~ Feature Article: “5 Tips To Have A Better Relationship With Money ”
Personal Note:Sharing My Gifts
Last week, I had the chance to be with Goddesses in our local
recreation center and spoke about Law of Attraction 101 for women.
It’s always great to have a refresher of what Law of Attraction is
about. Basically, it is also called Law of Vibration. What is
vibration then? Simply put, a mood or a feeling. You can watch a
short clip of how I started the workshop from this
1minute video.
What’s different when I teach LOA is to never forget their values
or heart virtues. One of my mentors shared…..
“Do you know the legend of Atlantis?
One of the legends of Atlantis goes like this…The people of Atlantis cultivated and deeply raised their consciousness. In fact, just prior to the beginning of the legend, the first real Initiates into this Earth realm, a group of beings with high Awareness decided that this pretty blue planet looked quite interesting. Before you knew it, a group of them had squeezed through from the expansiveness of where they were to the dense location of this incredible place. Some people called this place Mu, others called it Atlantis. With much work and experience, the beings of Atlantis raised their Awareness to Crystalline Consciousness. The people raised a particular spectrum of their consciousness to a higher realm, and they vibrated there.
They rose quickly to great heights…But, guess what they forgot?
They forgot their Heart. They forgot the simplicity of
their humanity.
In this connection, I would like to invite you to remember your
heart and would love for you to take this opportunity to join us in our 2 week course teleseminar series
“LONELY NO MORE: Stop Yearning & Start Finding Your Soulmate!
Register NOW: http://tinyurl.com/29dtdl7
Love and Light!
Have a better and better day,
Lourdes Elardo-Gant
Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach
P. S. A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs
P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can
download the questions here: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ
Upcoming Events With Lourdes
“Lonely No More!”
Stop Yearning And Start Finding Your
Soulmate To Share Your Life With
This 4 part teleseminar series is a cutting edge approach to finding your true love. What if it were possible to meet the man of your dreams? In this course you will learn:
- A fail-proof guide for any woman to create a fulfilling
relationship that lasts. - Answer questions single women face like: Why am I attracted to the wrong kind of guy? Why is he just not that into me? Why can’t I seem to find the One?
In this 4 part teleseminar series I will coach you through a 2 week program that shows how to:
- Avoid the number one dating mistake that single women make
- Break fatal dating patterns that ruin any chance of lasting love
- Empower yourself through creation of your pleasure palace
- Do the single most important thing you can to find love. It’s the opposite of what all the self-help books say
- Develop your own powerful and personalized dating plan that includes meeting lots of successful and caring or even a million dollar men!
Forget your dating past, gather yourself together, and learn how to create the love you want NOW!
October 5, 7, 12, and 14 – conducting my LONELY NO MORE
Teleseminar Series
October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s
Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona
November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event
in Las Vegas, Nevada
Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading
my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!
December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday
January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising
with Abraham-Hicks Group
Feature Article: “5 Tips To Have A Better Relationship With Money” by Lourdes Elardo-Gant
In my pursuit of continuing personal development, I am being trained (from October to December) to be a Certified Money Breakthrough Method Coach. My intentions for taking this program is to help
women have a better relationship with money so they can attract a Million Dollar Husband (if they want one!) or just enjoy having more money for a better quality of life! So for this week’s article I’d like to give you 5 tips on how to get started with that!
Tip #1. Notice your vocabulary around money. In Law of
Attraction, we say that words become thoughts, thoughts become vibration (or mood/feeling), and vibration gives you results. Are your vocabulary around money positive or negative? Do you notice expansion (appreciation, joy, relaxation, abundance, relief) or contraction (fear, doubt, worry, resentment, avoidance) in your money language?
Tip #2. Clean up your practical money clutter.Do you have bills piled up because you’re avoiding ‘em? Go get one folder and collect all your bills in one spot.
Tip #3. Complete your money “unresolved situations.” Do you owe someone money? Are you avoiding to pay it? This needs to be completed rather than relinquishing your money power. Rather than delaying to deal with it, set a time and confront this situation.
Tip #4. Let your “loose change” flow! You can find loose change in your car, purse, pockets, old purses. Cash ‘em for bigger bills or spend it. Money needs to circulate and flow. Do this in the next 7 days!
Tip #5. Prepare for increase. I believe that the more money you have, the more ability you have in helping more people. From now on, practice asking for more! For instance, ask for a raise (if you have a job) when you know you deserve it. Remember the quote, ask and you shall receive!
Lourdes Recommends
http://lourdeselardo-gant.com/mbm
“Easiest way to jumpstart your finding a million
dollar husband is w/ money breakthrough from @kendallcoach
–FREE video series.
How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?
My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar
husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.
Volume 1 Issue 26
A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.
In This Issue:
~ A Personal Note from Lourdes: Sharing My Gifts
~ Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 3
~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! LONELY NO MORE Teleseminar Series Classes Start October 5, 2010!
Personal Note: Sharing My Gifts
This was my booth from the 1st annual West Coast Women’s Show where I had the honor to speak in front of Goddesses about Relationships & Law of Attraction! It never seems to amaze me how I feel energized when people give me feedback that they get so much inspiration after hearing my story. I also shared this same story from last week’s preview call so if you haven’t listened to it yet, now is the time to do so. Check it out now because today is the last day that it’s going to be posted online. Here’s the link: http://tinyurl.com/299rtb7
In this call I also shared an opportunity for you to join us in our 2 week course teleseminar series “LONELY NO MORE: Stop Yearning & Start Finding Your Soulmate” If you have the BURNING DESIRE to change your love life on or before Christmas, then register NOW: paypal.com/cgi-bin/webs…
Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 3 by Lourdes Elardo-Gant
Here’s Pattern #11. Jealousy Trap. Somehow there is always a triangle: when you’re interested in a guy, there’s some other girl who is drawing his attention and it makes you scared and mad and jealous as heck. In this pattern, you’re not the other woman (for that, see “Crumbs”). You could actually have the whole enchilada with this guy, but instead of building a future with him, you drive the whole relationship downhill with your paranoid thinking, sulking, and jabbing accusations. In fact, you drive the guy right into the arms of your competitor. Here’s what you really believe: You think that every man’s fundamentally a player and, more to the point, that no one is really going to choose you. At its heart, jealousy is a belief that you are not good enough to be claimed.
Jealousy Trap Warning Sign. Your thoughts always stray to the other woman and what your guy is really doing or wants to do with her; you feel tense and irritable.
Here’s Pattern #12. Just Buddies. You have no trouble at all meeting men. They treat you like a buddy, watch and play sports with you, or even ask you to play love counselor for them as they pine for another girl. You may have male colleagues with whom you spend a lot of time because you’re a workaholic, just like them. You don’t flirt or give those female “go” signals, even if you like a guy. But you definitely talk a lot and spend time together. What’s wrong with this picture? The men always marry somebody else – and you do not have a good time at the weddings.
Some of the more common beliefs behind the Just Buddies pattern are: “I am not womanly,” I am not attractive, sensual or sexual and “No guy would be interested in me.”
Just Buddies Warning Sign. Getting dressed up and beautiful for a date makes you feel truly strange and uncomfortable, like you are not being the real you.
Here’s Pattern #13. The Grass Is Greener. You meet guys with potential, but you always have this nagging feeling that if you choose one of them, you are foreclosing on all your other options. You’re sure that the imaginary men you lose out on are much better than the guy you have in hand. You’re afraid you will end up settling for an ordinary or boring relationship – the worst possible thing in the world to you. So instead, you end up confused and incapable of choosing anyone.
In this pattern, you may feel more comfortable in long-distance relationships because your options are more open. You are wildly ambivalent about your partner: one moment you feel like he is the One, the next you feel trapped and resentful. As the relationship progresses, you find more and more faults and reasons to leave. This is the classic commitment phobia running your life.
Grass Is Greener Warning Sign. You are constantly thinking, thinking, thinking – analyzing your boyfriend and comparing him to an imagined or real guy who seems to be so much better.
September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101
October 5, 7, 12, and 14 – conducting my LONELY NO MORE Teleseminar Series
October 17, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Valley Home Based Businesses Association about Relationships & Law of Attraction
October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona
November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada
Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!
December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday
January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising with Abraham-Hicks Group
Love and Light!
Have a better and better day,
Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach
P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ
P. P. S. I recommend this resource:
How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?
My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.
Volume 1 Issue 25
A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.
In This Issue:
~ A Personal Note from Lourdes:Celebrating Elan’s FIRST Birthday!
~ Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 2
~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! September 21, 2010 “Lonely No More!” Teleseminar Series SPECIAL CALL
Personal Note: Celebrating Elan’s FIRST Birthday!
There’s nothing like celebrations! Yesterday we celebrated my son, Elan, first birthday. Here he is opening his first gift from “dada.” I appreciate the learnings and experiences he teaches me everyday and for him choosing me to be his mom. It’s been a year since I birth him in our home and I can say that it’s one of the most wonderful things that ever happened to me. I am a proud momma! ? To share my celebration with you I have a scholarship for you! So if you are ready to know details about our Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat and at the same time start learning finding your soulmate, listen in during our “LONELY NO MORE: Stop Yearning & Start Finding Your Soulmate” special f*ree call TODAY, September 21, 5-6pm PST, where you will get more information! Here are your conference access number: 1-402-237-5893 with your conference passcode: 911641.
Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 2 by Lourdes Elardo-Gant
Pattern #7. The Safety Net. A guy is crazy about you but you really think he’s too: (a) nerdy; (b) ugly; (c) crazy; (d) uneducated; or (e) unsuccessful – and therefore, beneath you. But you start seeing him because you feel like he’ll never leave you. In this pattern the guy is your safety choice – y ou really don’t care for the sucker. If truth be told, you’re embarrassed when your speed-dial friends meet him. But the guy does whatever you want, sees the movies you like, cooks for you, and provides some kind of security and companionship. Deep down you may believe that you’re the one who is not good enough and this is the best you’re ever going to do. You also may be terrified of commitment.
There are two possible endings in the Safety Net:
- You finally come face-to-face with the real void in your chemistry and decide you have to let him go. You put it off, agonizing about not hurting him, but your real worry is that maybe this is the best you’re gonna get – why let go of him, only to be crushed out there? Finally you do the nasty deed, feeling guilt ridden and afraid.
- He turns himself inside out to please you. Maybe he goes to school, gets a makeover, or gets a good job. As he grows, his self-esteem picks up. Then – surprise, surprise – he dumps you for the blond girl he sat next to in class. All of a sudden he looks good to you, and you’re amazed that you feel so upset. Unfortunately, you realize that you’re a day late and a euro short.
Safety Net Warning Sign. You only notice how hot your Safety Net could be when he is talking or flirting with another girl at a party.
Pattern #8. Not Perfect – I’ll Pass. Your best friend talks you into signing up for online dating. You interact with a number of men and quickly back out of seeing them because of various defects that each one has: this guy is too cynical, that one has bad teeth, the other anxiously spilled his Espresso Macchiato Grande all over his shirt. The reality is that you don’t even give them a chance to emerge and be who they are. No one is good enough.
Now you are not going to agree with the next point, but bear with me: You unconsciously project your own feelings of inadequacy onto each guy you meet or date. The flaw in them becomes blinding, completely and totally turning you off. You run. And your reactions are nothing more than defensive maneuvers designed to guard against being rejected yourself. Then you wonder why there are no good guys out there. I know, I know, this last part is not really you, right?
Not Perfect – I’ll Pass Warning Sign. You keep wondering why a woman like you who has so much going for her is single and alone.
Pattern #9. Chase Me. You meet a guy, have great sex in his king-sized bed, and open up not only sexually but emotionally. Everything is unfolding perfectly. Too perfectly. After the cozy coupling and thre-hour confessionals, you get scared to death. Almost against your own will, you find yourself running away while secretly hoping he’ll chase after you.
Your fear of commitment sufaces like a Loch Ness monster and starts running the show. You pull back and become unavailable, distant, or quiet – or you act crazy and dump him. Even if he acts loving, you insist that he doesn’t really care about you. It happens almost against your own will and for no particular reason.
The Chase Me is all about fear. When you start to fall for someone, you ultimately end up breaking up with him before he can hurt you. This way, you can control the heartbreak. What you really want is for the man you care for to smash through the barricades you’ve thrown up and ride in on his white horse and claim you, even if you are halfway around the world in Tokyo. But you never tell him. You set him up to fail you. Because you’ve pushed him away, he doesn’t chase after you. And you say to yourself and your friends, “I knew it all along.”
Chase Me Warning Sign. You love him, you hate him, you just don’t give a sh*t – and you can’t stop yourself from acting bitchy or distant.
September 21, 2010 – PREVIEW CALL for LONELY NO MORE: Stop Yearning & Start Finding Your Soulmate To Share Your Life With!
September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction
September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101
October 5, 7, 12, and 14 – conducting my LONELY NO MORE Teleseminar Series
October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona
November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada
Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!
December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday
January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising with Abraham-Hicks Group
Love and Light!
Have a better and better day,
Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach
P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ
P. P. S. I recommend this resource:
How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?
My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.
Volume 1 Issue 24
A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.
In This Issue:
~ A Personal Note from Lourdes:Wisdom Within Goddess Retreat
~ Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 1
~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! September 21, 2010 “Lonely No More!” Teleseminar Series SPECIAL CALL
Personal Note: Wisdom Within Goddess Retreat
I was fortunate to spend last weekend with 12 Goddesses (I’m at the far right in my dreamy turquoise dress) in Sooke, BC where I spoke about Relationships & Law of Attraction. There’s nothing more powerful than being energized in divine feminine juice energy! So if you are ready to know details about our Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat and at the same time start learning finding your soulmate, listen in during our “LONELY NO MORE” special f*ree call on September 21, 5-6pmPST, where you will get more information! Here are your conference access number: 1-402-237-5893 with your conference passcode: 911641.
Feature Article: What Is Your Deadly Dating Pattern? Part 1 by Lourdes Elardo-Gant
Pattern #2: The Fantasy Relationship. You are crazy about and intensely focused on a man who really has no romantic interest in you. It could be a guy you used to date, a co-worker, someone you see at the gym, or sometimes even a star, like Brad Pitt. If he’s an old boyfriend, you daydream about what you used to do with him and/or fantasize about what he is doing, how it is “really meant to be,” and the amazing “bond” you two have. You fantasize about how he is “maturing” or “fulfilling his potential” and how he’ll definitely come back to you.
If it’s a guy you’re often around, you ignore any signs of his lack of interest and concoct elaborate meanings for whatever he says or does to indicate that he has feelings for you. How he stayed late at the office to help with your overdue project, or how he gave you that special smile and let you skip in front of him in line for a treadmill. It goes on and on like this for months, maybe even years. In the Brad Pitt scenario, you become a raving fan with a shrine in your room – maybe you even start a fan club.
In the fantasy relationship this guy takes up all of your romantic attention. You think and talk about him all the time. But he never asks you out or comes on to you. And you certainly don’t start anything that shows your real infatuation with him. But you expect something magical to happen that will shift this relationship into a Cinderella happily-ever-after. The magical and irrational thinking that underlie this pattern keep you and your life on “hold” and out of reality.
Fantasy Relationship Warning Sign. Down deep you feel empty, sad, and – if you are honest – angry, rejected, and heartbroken by your so-called partner.
Pattern #3: Crumbs. In this pattern you are involved with a guy (maybe he is married or a hot irresistible player) who sees you occasionally and only when it work in his schedule. If you pay close attention you may see that he is a flaming narcissist who does not seem to know that anyone outside of himself really exists. He may go through the motions, but fundamentally, he’s not really interested in anything about your life.
For the most part, he treats you well when he is with you. If he’s wealthy, he may buy you Manolos or take you to five-star dinners. He may take you to the Promised Land in bed. But he’s never available when you need or want him (Mr. Big played this role, doling out crumbs to Carrie in Sex in the City). And he cuts you off if his wife or his “old flame” enters the scene. The Crumbs scenario is the exact opposite of what happens in a real, loving relationship, where you and your needs come first and foremost.
This pattern causes you a great deal of sadness and pain, yet you think that overall it’s a good deal. You spend a lot of time thinking and fantasizing about him: how he’s going to leave his wife or stop being a player, or cut back on his work schedule and be with you in a rose – covered cottage or on the beach in Maui. Of course, he does make noises or promises in that direction. In the meantime, you may even get involved with a really nice guy who cares for you and wants to be in a serious and committed relationship. But secretly you’ve given your heart to the fantasy man who gives you crumbs and not to the real man who is prepared to do everything in his power for you. Ultimately, this pattern will destroy the real relationship you have and you will continue to be a beggar at love’s feast. You’d never admit it, even to your bestfriend, but you believe that this second-class status is the very best you’ll ever be able to get and you’re damn lucky to have it.
Crumbs Warning Sign. Your partner is always “making it up” to you for time spent away, holiday missed, or being with another woman.
Pattern #4: The Hermit. You’re too busy. Between work, the guy, and walking Max, your dog, you don’t have any time for a social life. At the end of the long day you need to collapse with Max on the sofa in your apartment, wolf down your dinner, and click the remote to find a pseudo-life on TV. You signed up on Match.com but never used it because you were too busy or exhausted whenever you thought of it. You think, Someday I’ll get around to finding a great relationship, and that takes care of your worries about it. You barely have any sex drive left at all – the darn machinery down there has gotten so rusty. But it’s fine. You can take care of yourself. Really.
A Hermit maybe very shy or even socially phobic. Being intimate scares her so much that she hides and avoids contact. All of these fears are masked under the guise of being Ms. Independent.
Hermit Warning Sign. You get more pleasure out of watching a romantic comedy by yourself or with your friends than actually flirting with guys or going out on dates.
Watch out for next week’s issue for Patterns # 5, 6, 7, and 8 
September 20, 2010 – Celebrating Elan’s FIRST birthday!!!!!
September 10 – 12, 2010 – Speaking at www.wisdomwithin.ca Women Inspiring Women Goddess Retreat
September 21, 2010 – PREVIEW CALL for Finding Your Soulmate In 6 Months or Less!
September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction
September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101
October 5, 7, 12, and 14 – conducting my LONELY NO MORE Teleseminar Series
October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona
November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada
Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!
December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday
January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising with Abraham-Hicks Group
Love and Light!
Have a better and better day,
Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach
P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ
P. P. S. I recommend this resource:
How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?
My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.
Volume 1 Issue 23
A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.
In This Issue:
~ A Personal Note from Lourdes:“Home Sweet Home”
~ Feature Article: How To Trust And Let Everything Fall Easily Into Place
~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! September 21, 2010 “Lonely No More! Stop Yearning And Start Finding Your Soulmate To Share Your Life With.” Teleseminar Series PREVIEW CALL
Personal Note: “Home Sweet Home”
There’s no place like home! I’m back in North America and here’s a picture of my parents (with my son, Elan) who landed in Canada first time last weekend. I must admit eventhough I love travelling it always feels good to have a base where I can relax and enjoy our “home sweet home” in Vancouver Island I’m happy to be able to travel with my husband and son and enjoy my parents’ presence because of the lifestyle I have. As a result of my holiday I had a divine inspiration during my vacation. We are launching a teleseminar series especially for you! If you are looking to attract the relationship of your dreams then this teleseminar series is for you! Introducing the Lonely No More! Stop Yearning And Start Finding Your Soulmate To Share Your Life With.” teleseminar series! Details soon….watch out for it!
Feature Article: How To Trust And Let Everything Fall Easily Into Place by Katherine Dever
It’s a sunny day in Ecuador, Natasha’s inner guidance tells her to rest this afternoon and meditate on a full and life-changing week of experiences, healing and cleansing. But her mind tells her to get some money changed. Her energy becomes scattered and she trawls the bustling hot streets, visiting 10 different banks before finally giving up, exhausted, harassed and with no fruits for her efforts. In fact, when she stops and takes a deep breath, she realises that she can change her money at the airport the following day when she flies to Peru. This is a typical, all too common and microcosmic example of how we take the path of struggle when we fail to trust and follow our intuition.
So, let me ask you a question, do YOU trust?
It’s one thing to think you do trust on the surface of things; but do you truly feel deep inside that you are safe in the arms of life, and that you are guided, protected and abundantly supported with everything you could ever need to live life effortlessly, richly, and beautifully?
If the answer is no or not sure- ask yourself what would you be doing, saying and feeling if you could allow yourself to lean into life and let it catch you?
If we live constantly fearing or worrying that no one and nothing can support us properly then that is exactly what we create, and we get to experience the evidence of that in our hologram- and be right 
But if we allow ourselves to breathe, relax, and allow then we can be held up and supported by Love- by the infinite organizing power of Life- and we open ourselves up to experience and receive guidance from our inner selves, it’s not always rational, but if you enter into a place where you can trust it you will find a shift in your life that changes everything- Life becomes magical, easy and abundant.
If you think about it none of us would last very long without our primary need for survival- the air we breathe. But we don’t panic or question where our next breath is going to come from or whether our heart is going to take its next beat at the right time, or if our blood will flow in the right direction, do we?
And we don’t plant a seed in the garden and then constantly uproot it to check if its growing, or criticise it when it takes time to flower or bear fruit…Yet have you noticed how often we can sabotage our own success by interfering with the creative processes and getting in our own way.
You were meant to blossom as naturally as all the children of the Universe, and with trust all the things you desire, dream of or need fall easily and gracefully into place. It may seem hard to believe- and that is half the battle! When we allow ourselves to feel into this space and live there it is as though life rises up to meet us and the more we can surrender and trust the process the better and better it gets.
In this ‘flow zone’ where we open to the magic of life and live in ‘the gap’ we get to experience many great blessings, opportunities and miracles such as:
- A sense of connection, gratitude, empathy and love with all life
- A deep sense of appreciation for our own body, mind and spirit
- An awareness and desire to use the gifts we have been given
- Improved, more open and flowing relationships
- Increased flow of wellbeing, resources, opportunities and support
- Inspiration, ‘Eureka’ moments, and euphoria
- Little ‘God-winks’ – synchronicities, nods from the Universe and Divine timing.
However, though all of us are born with a free ticket to the “flow zone” sometimes we forget and become distracted by the fears, worry thoughts, doubts and judgments of the mind and we become tangled up in the illusion that we, and life, are anything less than perfect. We become suspicious that ‘life can really be that good’ and our resistance to letting go and fully trusting manifests as chaos, confusion or struggle so that we burst our own bubble- and get to prove ourselves right
Consciously or subconsciously, these limits we put on our capacity to love, surrender and go with the flow stem from our doubts and self-worth deep inside. On the outside they manifest as:
- Creative clutter’ or chronic disorganization – Lack of self-trust means you never throw anything out. Letting go is something we need to learn to do with our whole bodies- practice fully giving yourself to life, to your partner, to your work and to yourself, and trust that you are safe and provided for. It’s ok to let things go if they no longer serve you or you don’t love them and it’s time to move on.
- Illness: Harsh judgments and criticism, bitterness, self-doubt and chronic worry literally manifest in the body as all kinds of ailments- check out “You can Heal your Life” By Louise Hay for more on the subject.
- Addiction – toxic habits, relationships or behaviours are one of our best distractions for keeping us locked into fear and denial- where we hide and run from ourselves and our greatest gifts by using smoke screens, other people to ‘fix’, or burying our head by losing it to seek comfort or pleasure, numbing us to our feelings (which is our intuition so if we don’t know what we are feeling how can we begin to trust it?).Start taking time to just notice your feelings and give yourself more appreciation – the likelihood is there’s a part of you that just wants your attention and the more you refuse to trust yourself, the further down the spiral you go- and the further you get away from your authentic self and all your good.
- Arguments, Lawsuits, Dramas: We create/ engage in disputes, rows, battles, traumas to avoid our calling because we don’t believe that we are good enough to answer it. We don’t trust our inherent creativity, our inner knowing, or the goodness of life and other people- and therefore we attract drama, engage in battles and project our fear and insecurities out into the World- a powerfully convincing technique to avoid our greatness.
- ‘Wounds Projects’: A Wounds project is anything we do that is not from the heart and doesn’t come from love- whether that is doing a job you hate just for the cash, staying with a partner you don’t love just because you feel guilty or doing something that doesn’t align, purely because you feel obliged to- a wounds project is born from your wounds and only drives them deeper. It can be uncomfortable but sacrificing your self is never ever truly service and if you trust that what is in your highest good is in the highest good for all, then you can quickly begin to move out of the victim and the ‘wounds projects’ and start working on and in your joy.
Here is a little prayer I regularly use to help me stay in the flow of trust, its written in the front of my day book and has changed my life:
‘I trust that no matter what happens in my life, it is for my highest good. And no matter what happens in the lives of those I love, it is for their highest good. From all things that are put before us, we shall become stronger and more loving people. I am grateful for all the beauty and opportunity you put into my life. And in all that I do, I shall seek to be a channel for your love.’ (Susan Jeffers)
~ Upcoming Events: Mark Your Calendar! September 21, 2010 Preview Call for
“Lonely No More!”
Stop Yearning And Start Finding Your Soulmate To Share Your Life With.
This 4 part teleseminar series is a cutting edge approach to finding your true love. What if it were possible to meet the man of your dreams? In this course you will learn:
- A fail-proof guide for any woman to create a fulfilling relationship that lasts.
- Answer questions single women face like: Why am I attracted to the wrong kind of guy? Why is he just not that into me? Why can’t I seem to find the One?
In this 4 part teleseminar series I will coach you through a 2 week program that shows how to:
- Avoid the number one dating mistake that single women make
- Break fatal dating patterns that ruin any chance of lasting love
- Empower yourself through creation of your pleasure palace
- Do the single most important thing you can to find love. It’s the opposite of what all the self-help books say
- Develop your own powerful and personalized dating plan that includes meeting lots of successful and caring or even a million dollar men!
Forget your dating past, gather yourself together, and learn how to create the love you want NOW! Watch out for the information of the preview call happening on September 21, 2010, 5-6pm US/Canada Pacific Time.
September 10 – 12, 2010 – Speaking at www.wisdomwithin.ca Women Inspiring Women Goddess Retreat
September 21, 2010 – PREVIEW CALL for Finding Your Soulmate In 6 Months or Less!
September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction
September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101
October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona
November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada
Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!
December 24, 2010 – January 24, 2011 – Australia holiday
January 3 – 15, 2011 – New Zealand/Australia Cruising with Abraham-Hicks Group
You can read it all here – Click this to read the newsletter: Sparkle Magic & Wisdom In Relationships Ezine
Remember to add “lourdes@speakingwithlourdes.com” to your whitelist, safelist, or address book in your e-mail program to ensure you won’t have trouble receiving future issues!
Love and Light!
Have a better and better day,
Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach
P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ
P. P. S. I recommend this resource:
How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?
My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.
Volume 1 Issue 22
A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.
In This Issue:
~ A Personal Note from Lourdes:On The Road Part 3
~ Feature Article:How To Get A Man’s Attention Fast…Listen To This Audio by Christian Carter
~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?
Personal Note: On The Road Part 3
I am not sure if I shared with you that my husband, Eric, has a recurring dream when he was 17 that his soulmate was a Chinese woman. He had been to the Far East before always looking for this Chinese gal but at no luck. 3 years ago when we met and found out that I am Filipino (but with Chinese looking features! My Dad used to teased me that I got exchanged in the hospital when I was born) he said he was looking at the wrong places! Call it synchronicity or serendipity but most of the time I am mistaken to be Chinese. So to keep it straight, I had this picture taken in Tianjin Antique Cultural Street to keep things straight ? I am wearing this authentic Chinese dress with the Empress Crown (picture above) which is probably my past life! Ha! Talking about synchronicity or serendipity, have you thought why I keep on bombarding you with this idea of designing your own relationship success? It’s no accident you keep on reading about “Attract by Love” VIP Day- LIMITED OFFER because it is for you!
Have you tried getting an attraction and dating plan done and found it a struggle? Maybe got it finished but it didn’t inspire or motivate you? Or perhaps you never got it completed – with not even enough enthusiasm to finish the plan let alone implement it? Or worse still – thought about it but never even got around to it when procrastination loomed large!
Then this VIP intensive is JUST FOR YOU.
Spend less than a day ‘virtually’ with me and I guarantee you will “Attract by Love” for the remainder of the year and manifest your soulmate to you! Not only that but you’ll be so excited about the pleasure possibilities and the impact you’ll make in your relationships you’ll be amazed with the power you already have within you!
Giving attention to your desires is YOUR MOST important role in your love life don’t leave it to chance. Email me with subject line “2010 Attract By Love VIP Day” with your contact details and 2 preferred times to talk and I’ll call you to discuss attracting your soulmate magically customerservice@milliondollarman.ca ONLY 1 spots available for this year – make one of them yours.
Oh, one last thing. You will receive a f~ree bonus of the complete set of “Money Mirror” cards and a 30 minute Money Breakthrough coaching session available exclusively via my Private Platinum Certified Money, Marketing and Soul Coach, Kathleen Ann. This tool will really help you hone your skill to attract a Million Dollar Man – be prepared to get really excited about attracting love this year!!
Feature Article: How To Get A Man’s Attention Fast…Listen To This Audio by Christian Carter
When there’s something you want from your man, whether it’s more attention, or for him to listen to your needs, or for him to STOP doing something, how do you COMMUNICATE that to him?
Do you communicate in a way that compels him to want to get closer and feel more connected to you?
Or, do you communicate in a way that turns him OFF? And do you know the difference between the two?
Listen to this free audio clip from Christian Carter’s interview with psychologist and couples communication expert Mary O’Neill, where she talks about the ONE THING that she sees as a huge TURN OFF for a man when it comes to how a woman asks for something:
http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/interviewseries/mi_sample_maryoneill.asp
This is just one of dozens of incredible insights and tips about communication and how to
talk to a man that you’ll learn when you get a copy of Christian Carter’s complete (one hour plus) interview with Mary O’Neill.
~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?
I am working on the program for my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat and want it to be the best possible experience for clients.
One quick question. What would need to be included for the retreat to be really valuable for you? or Anything else you’d like to share with me?
As a gift for taking time to answer this research, send me an email: customerservice@milliondollarman.ca to receive an audio for one “white magic” I used to manifest my million dollar husband!
I suggest you mark the date now!
Can three days change your life? Yes! If you invest them learning my step-by-step magic formula for attracting my Million Dollar Man With Ease, Grace and Joy! You are going to learn the fastest way to attract and manifest not only a man who is financially free but help you to create the romantic relationship of your dreams once and for all so you can be the “Divine” feminine that you already are!
It’s all included in my LIVE Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat (DFDR), happening this November 27, 28, 29, 2010. Whether you’re single or you’re already in a relationship DFDR is the ONLY workshop where you can leap into an exciting new relationship level, giving up the exhausting masculine approach to romance that just doesn’t work for us women. My signature combination of Divine Feminine principles and proven attraction steps will work like magic to help you effortlessly manifest your relationship success — I promise!
But I must warn you now, DFDR is NOT your typical “feel hype only in a weekend” event. I will be diving deeply into your relationship “stuff.” Plus, provide you with a pleasure palace, live “Goddess Gathering” practices with me and your divine sisters, step-by-step magic, charmed secrets, my simple Signature Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps.
August, 2010 – China Holiday Trip
September 2, 2010 – First preview call for Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat, watch out for more information!
September 10 – 12, 2010 – Speaking at www.wisdomwithin.ca Women Inspiring Women Goddess Retreat
September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction
September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101
October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona
November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada
Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!
You can read it all here – Click this to read the newsletter: Sparkle Magic & Wisdom In Relationships Ezine
Remember to add “lourdes@speakingwithlourdes.com” to your whitelist, safelist, or address book in your e-mail program to ensure you won’t have trouble receiving future issues!
Love and Light!
Have a better and better day,
Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach
P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ
P. P. S. I recommend this resource:
How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?
My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.
Volume 1 Issue 21
A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.
In This Issue:
~ A Personal Note from Lourdes:On The Road Part 2
~ Feature Article:Secrets of Happiness by Relationship Coaching Institute
~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?
Personal Note: On The Road Part 2
Here’s a picture of Elan and myself (at the right) after we travelled through by foot and boat the 3,000 meter Benxi water cave. It’s the longest water cave in the world and inside is an amazing collection of stalactites and stalagmites. It was wonderful how mother nature does its thing for spectators’ beauty and amazement to be enjoyed. I’ve always been lucky being able to see both the simplicity and complexity of how the world is designed in its magnificence. Speaking of design, have you thought of designing your own relationship success? When you answer YES then this
“Attract by Love” VIP Day- LIMITED OFFER is for you!
Have you tried getting an attraction and dating plan done and found it a struggle? Maybe got it finished but it didn’t inspire or motivate you? Or perhaps you never got it completed – with not even enough enthusiasm to finish the plan let alone implement it? Or worse still – thought about it but never even got around to it when procrastination loomed large!
Then this VIP intensive is JUST FOR YOU.
Spend less than a day ‘virtually’ with me and I guarantee you will “Attract by Love” for the remainder of the year and manifest your soulmate to you! Not only that but you’ll be so excited about the pleasure possibilities and the impact you’ll make in your relationships you’ll be amazed with the power you already have within you!
Giving attention to your desires is YOUR MOST important role in your love life don’t leave it to chance. Email me with subject line “2010 Attract By Love VIP Day” with your contact details and 2 preferred times to talk and I’ll call you to discuss attracting your soulmate magically customerservice@milliondollarman.ca ONLY 1 spots available for this year – make one of them yours.
Oh, one last thing. You will receive a f~ree bonus of the complete set of “Money Mirror” cards and a 30 minute Money Breakthrough coaching session available exclusively via my Private Platinum Certified Money, Marketing and Soul Coach, Kathleen Ann. This tool will really help you hone your skill to attract a Million Dollar Man – be prepared to get really excited about attracting love this year!!
Feature Article: Secrets of Happiness by Relationship Coaching Institute
We all want to be happy and we have to take responsibility for making that happen. The first 5 secrets of being happy are …
Secret #1: If you want a partner, be a partner
Secret #2: The journey is the destination
Secret #3: The journey is always longer and harder than expected
Secret #4: Have goals while letting go of outcomes
Secret #5: Grow up and take responsibility
This month we continue with our exploration into the 10 Secrets of Happiness. Here are 5 more!
Secret #6: To be happy we must grow, to grow we must stretch
Our human nature is to have an inner conflict between comfort and challenge, growth and inertia. Balancing these opposing forces within us is an on-going effort. When we lean too far towards comfort, we risk stagnation, complacency, inertia. Too much challenge can lead to stress and burn-out. Our culture overvalues comfort and undervalues effort. Many of our clients engage our coaching to get what they want, yet resist stretching beyond their comfort level to get it.
Secret #7: To get it, you have to give it away
This is a paradox that challenges the “Me” generation. We are much more motivated to “get” than to “give”, which wreaks serious havoc in our relationships. When we focus on giving and let go of keeping score, we have a chance of finding happiness in our life and relationships.
Secret #8: What goes around comes around
There is a consequence for your every choice and action. Of course we want our choices to be successful and get us what we want, and we resist acknowledging the possibility or reality of undesired outcomes. While this may seem simple and obvious, the spread of AIDS, multiple divorces, unwanted children, etc, are caused by people that are going after what they want and ignoring future consequences.
Secret #9: The truth will set you free
Most of us struggle with a dissonance between what we want and what we have, the way things “should” be with the way things are, what we WANT to believe and the reality. When we can let go of our fears and ego enough to accept the truth about ourselves, life, relationships, etc., we open the door to the possibility of happiness.
Secret #10: Our relationships are our mirrors
The definition of intimacy that I like is “Into Me I See”. This can be quite challenging and uncomfortable, as we will experience the parts of ourselves that we don’t like (our “shadows”) as well as what we want to see. Happiness in a relationship means learning to use the relationship to learn and grow, which means taking full responsibility and even embracing our shadows when they get reflected to us.
Bonus Secret:
Happiness is a fleeting experience and highly overrated as a life goal. Incorporate the above “Ten Dirty Secrets of Happiness” into your life and learn to have goals while letting go of attachment to outcomes. When you can be happy with “what is,” you will experience true contentment.
by Relationship Coaching Institute. Excerpted from “Ten Dirty Secrets of Happiness” by David Steele, Founder, Relationship Coaching Institute.
~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?
I am working on the program for my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat and want it to be the best possible experience for clients.
One quick question. What would need to be included for the retreat to be really valuable for you? or Anything else you’d like to share with me?
As a gift for taking time to answer this research, send me an email: customerservice@milliondollarman.ca to receive an audio for one “white magic” I used to manifest my million dollar husband!
I suggest you mark the date now!
Can three days change your life? Yes! If you invest them learning my step-by-step magic formula for attracting my Million Dollar Man With Ease, Grace and Joy! You are going to learn the fastest way to attract and manifest not only a man who is financially free but help you to create the romantic relationship of your dreams once and for all so you can be the “Divine” feminine that you already are!
It’s all included in my LIVE Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat (DFDR), happening this November 27, 28, 29, 2010. Whether you’re single or you’re already in a relationship DFDR is the ONLY workshop where you can leap into an exciting new relationship level, giving up the exhausting masculine approach to romance that just doesn’t work for us women. My signature combination of Divine Feminine principles and proven attraction steps will work like magic to help you effortlessly manifest your relationship success — I promise!
But I must warn you now, DFDR is NOT your typical “feel hype only in a weekend” event. I will be diving deeply into your relationship “stuff.” Plus, provide you with a pleasure palace, live “Goddess Gathering” practices with me and your divine sisters, step-by-step magic, charmed secrets, my simple Signature Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps.
August, 2010 – China Holiday Trip
September 2, 2010 – First preview call for Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat, watch out for more information!
September 10 – 12, 2010 – Speaking at www.wisdomwithin.ca Women Inspiring Women Goddess Retreat
September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction
September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101
October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona
November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada
Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!
You can read it all here – Click this to read the newsletter: Sparkle Magic & Wisdom In Relationships Ezine
Remember to add “lourdes@speakingwithlourdes.com” to your whitelist, safelist, or address book in your e-mail program to ensure you won’t have trouble receiving future issues!
Love and Light!
Have a better and better day,
Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach
P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ
P. P. S. I recommend this resource:
How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?
My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.
Volume 1 Issue 20
A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.
In This Issue:
~ A Personal Note from Lourdes: On The Road
~ Feature Article: Take A Moment by Denis Waitley
~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?
Personal Note: On The Road
I am in Zhong Lian Hotel overlooking the China Korea Friendship Bridge (picture above) as I’m writing this week’s issue. This place is called Dandong which is the principal gateway to North Korea from China, and has a buzz unusual for a Chinese city of its size. Separated from the Democratic People’s Republic of China (DPRK) by the Yalu River. It’s only my 6 days here and yet I am experiencing the ultimate in Chinese luxurious hospitality! Our first stop was Dalian where we met and had dinner with the owner of the five star hotel called Furuma Hotel. It was magnificent! Everything was star VIP treatment and luxurious accommodation, luxurious horizon, luxurious collections! I have never seen and experienced the word luxurious in my entire life as I’ve seen it here in the first week I’ve been here! Talking about VIP at it’s peak! In this connection, would you really like to experience what it’s like to have VIP luxurious coaching treatment so you can really attract the relationship of your dreams?
“Attract by Love” VIP Day- LIMITED OFFER
Have you tried getting an attraction and dating plan done and found it a struggle? Maybe got it finished but it didn’t inspire or motivate you? Or perhaps you never got it completed – with not even enough enthusiasm to finish the plan let alone implement it? Or worse still – thought about it but never even got around to it when procrastination loomed large!
Then this VIP intensive is JUST FOR YOU.
Spend less than a day ‘virtually’ with me and I guarantee you will “Attract by Love” for the remainder of the year and manifest your soulmate to you! Not only that but you’ll be so excited about the pleasure possibilities and the impact you’ll make in your relationships you’ll be amazed with the power you already have within you!
Giving attention to your desires is YOUR MOST important role in your love life don’t leave it to chance. Email me with subject line “2010 Attract By Love VIP Day” with your contact details and 2 preferred times to talk and I’ll call you to discuss attracting your soulmate magically customerservice@milliondollarman.ca ONLY 1 spots available for this year – make one of them yours.
Oh, one last thing. You will receive a f~ree bonus of the complete set of “Money Mirror” cards and a 30 minute Money Breakthrough coaching session available exclusively via my Private Platinum Certified Money, Marketing and Soul Coach, Kathleen Ann. This tool will really help you hone your skill to attract a Million Dollar Man – be prepared to get really excited about attracting love this year!!
Feature Article: Take A Moment from Denis Waitley’s Seeds of Greatnesss
I’m taking a break from the usual article this week while I’m on the road but would like to share with you this poem.
Take a moment to listen today to what your children are trying to say,
Listen to them, whatever you do or they won’t be there to listen to you.
Listen to their problems, listen to their needs Praise their smallest triumphs, praise their littlest deeds; Tolerate their chatter, amplify their laughter, Find out what’s the matter, find out what they’re after. .
If we tell our children all the bad in them we see, They’ll grow up exactly how we hoped they’d never be; But if we tell our children we’re so proud to wear their name, They’ll grow up believing that they’re winners in the game.
So tell them that you love them every single night; And though you scold them make sure you hold them and tell them they’re all right, “Good night, happy dreams, Tomorrow’s looking bright.”
Take a moment to listen today to what your children are trying to say Listen to them whatever you do, and They’ll be there to listen to you. -Denis Waitley.
The Winner’s Edge Coaching Tips
In my experience, there are three prevalent fears, beyond the fear regarding personal safety:
- Fear of Rejection, which is being made a fool or failure in the sight or presence of others.
- Fear of Change, which is charting unknown waters, being a pioneer, breaking tradition and sacrificing external security.
- Fear of Success, which is an expression of inadequacy in feeling we perhaps don’t deserve to achieve, combined with emotions of guilt when we do better than expected.
Zig Ziglar says that fear is False Evidence Appearing Real. Fear can shut you down if you choose to allow it, or it can be a fuel used to move you on to greater heights of achievement. This week, ask yourself which fear do you struggle most with and then start to work on ways to counteract and face your fears. -Denis Waitley
~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?
I am working on the program for my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat and want it to be the best possible experience for clients.
One quick question. What would need to be included for the retreat to be really valuable for you? or Anything else you’d like to share with me?
As a gift for taking time to answer this research, send me an email: customerservice@milliondollarman.ca to receive an audio for one “white magic” I used to manifest my million dollar husband!
I suggest you mark the date now!
Can three days change your life? Yes! If you invest them learning my step-by-step magic formula for attracting my Million Dollar Man With Ease, Grace and Joy! You are going to learn the fastest way to attract and manifest not only a man who is financially free but help you to create the romantic relationship of your dreams once and for all so you can be the “Divine” feminine that you already are!
It’s all included in my LIVE Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat (DFDR), happening this November 27, 28, 29, 2010. Whether you’re single or you’re already in a relationship DFDR is the ONLY workshop where you can leap into an exciting new relationship level, giving up the exhausting masculine approach to romance that just doesn’t work for us women. My signature combination of Divine Feminine principles and proven attraction steps will work like magic to help you effortlessly manifest your relationship success — I promise!
But I must warn you now, DFDR is NOT your typical “feel hype only in a weekend” event. I will be diving deeply into your relationship “stuff.” Plus, provide you with a pleasure palace, live “Goddess Gathering” practices with me and your divine sisters, step-by-step magic, charmed secrets, my simple Signature Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps.
August, 2010 – China Holiday Trip
September 2, 2010 – First preview call for Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat, watch out for more information!
September 10 – 12, 2010 – Speaking at www.wisdomwithin.ca Women Inspiring Women Goddess Retreat
September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction
September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101
October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona
November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada
Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!
You can read it all here – Click this to read the newsletter: Sparkle Magic & Wisdom In Relationships Ezine
Remember to add “lourdes@speakingwithlourdes.com” to your whitelist, safelist, or address book in your e-mail program to ensure you won’t have trouble receiving future issues!
Love and Light!
Have a better and better day,
Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach
P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ
P. P. S. I recommend this resource:
How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?
My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.
Volume 1 Issue 19
A warm welcome to all the Goddesses who joined my tribe of like minded, soul inspired women and Divine entrepreneurs.
In This Issue:
~ A Personal Note from Lourdes: A Summer To Remember!
~ Feature Article: The Joy Dividend, Martha Beck’s Method For Converting Money to Happiness
~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?
Personal Note: A Summer To Remember!
One of Eric’s business part~ners gifted us for an all expense paid trip to China this month. So I’m probably climbing the Great Wall for the 2nd time while you’re reading this. And I say this not to impress you but to impress upon you the importance of quality time with family and having a quality life like the one I have because I have the relationship of my dreams! Before summer is over it’s great season for a new experience especially with my family. Speaking of new experiences, according to a study at San Francisco State University, if you spend money on experiences (such as restaurant meals, concert tickets, or weekend getaways) rather than possessions, it can lead to greater happiness. Ryan Howell, Ph. D., an assistant professor of Psychology at SFSU, explains it this way: “Experiences provide memory capital. We don’t tend to get bored with happy memories like we do with material objects. We will explore more of this in today’s article from Martha Beck entitled “The Joy Dividend…” In this connection, would you really like to experience what it’s like to have someone hold you by the hand so you can really attract the relationship of your dreams?
“Attract by Love” VIP Day- LIMITED OFFER
Have you tried getting an attraction and dating plan done and found it a struggle? Maybe got it finished but it didn’t inspire or motivate you? Or perhaps you never got it completed – with not even enough enthusiasm to finish the plan let alone implement it? Or worse still – thought about it but never even got around to it when procrastination loomed large!
Then this VIP intensive is JUST FOR YOU.
Spend less than a day ‘virtually’ with me and I guarantee you will “Attract by Love” for the remainder of the year and manifest your soulmate to you! Not only that but you’ll be so excited about the pleasure possibilities and the impact you’ll make in your relationships you’ll be amazed with the power you already have within you!
Giving attention to your desires is YOUR MOST important role in your love life don’t leave it to chance. Email me with subject line “2010 Attract By Love VIP Day” with your contact details and 2 preferred times to talk and I’ll call you to discuss attracting your soulmate magically customerservice@milliondollarman.ca ONLY 1 spots available for this year – make one of them yours.
Oh, one last thing. You will receive a f~ree bonus of the complete set of “Money Mirror” cards and a 30 minute Money Breakthrough coaching session available exclusively via my Private Platinum Certified Money, Marketing and Soul Coach, Kathleen Ann. This tool will really help you hone your skill to attract a Million Dollar Man – be prepared to get really excited about attracting love this year!!
Feature Article: The Joy Dividend, Martha Beck’s Method For Converting Money to Happiness
Another magazine that I read almost on a monthly basis is the Oprah Magazine. One of the articles that caught my attention for this months issue is the Joy Dividend. Martha Beck has no head for numbers (just ask her accountant), but she does have a proven strategy for converting money into happiness. Here’s her unconventional plan….
Long ago, so long ago that I was practically still a gill-breather, I noticed a magazine ad that claimed the average person earns $700,000 over an entire lifetime. I have no idea how they came to that number, but I never forgot the words splashed in big, bold letters across the page:
WHAT WILL YOU DO WITH YOUR $700,000?
I was lucky to encounter this question so early on, because it’s lurked in my mind ever since, reminding me that I want to spend my life’s earnings creating the most satistifying experiences I can. That might mean buying and using certain objects, paying someone for life-enhancing services, or donating to good causes.
This is the type of wealth management, but the wealth is not money; it’s happiness. And to reap as much of it as possible, I’ve come up with a little system to maximize the joy dividend in all my money decisions. This strategy may sound odd to actual financial advisers, but when I ignored it – even to make what appear to be fiscally sound choices – my joie de vivre has declined. I’ve learned that sticking to my rules makes things turn out far better, and I’m hoping that if you adopt this system it will work for you, too.
Calcuting Satisfaction
My financial planning starts with temporarily ignoring the market value of an item and assessing it’s “psychic value.” This isn’t as mysterious as it sounds. Economists use the term psychic income to represent the satisfaction we get from a product or experience. To calculate the psychic value of an item, you just need to ask, “How would purchasing this thing affect my life?” The answer will vary wildly from person to person. For example, I’ve found that real diamonds give me not one whit more satisfaction than fake ones. If you’re scandalized by this confession, real diamonds must matter to you. For you wearing even the nicest zirconium may feel like a shameful life. I don’t understand this, but I accept it.
On the other hand, when my golden retriever’s knees gave out, I paid $12,000 for their surgical repair without a second thought. Even a cursory financial assessment would reveal that this dog produces no useful goods or services whatsoever, and that instead of having him bionically enhanced, I should have whacked him over the head with a shovel. But Bjorn is to me what diamonds are to whoever wrote that song: a girl’s best friend.
My point is that psychic value comes from our unique inner responses, which means you need to get in touch with your own heart’s desires. You might learn that you value (or devalue) something simply because others do, but I think you’ll find you already know what you consider the psychic value of everything – all the way from worthless to priceless.
Introducing the Matrix
Once you’ve established your psychic value for an item, you need to know just one more thing: Love is not LOVE. This is the key to my financial planning system. Allow me to explain.
I have a fabulous friend I’ll call Eve, who bootstrapped herself from dirt-poor beginnings to considerable wealth. When contemplating a purchase, Eve asks, “Do I really NEED this?” Then she asks, “Do I really LOVE it?” If the answer to both questions is no, then however inexpensive an item maybe she won’t buy it.
I’m using capital letters because Eve pushes the definitions of need and love much further than most people. Having survived abject poverty, she knows (as some wealthy people don’t) that she doesn’t actually require an indoor polo field or, for, that matter, an Ipod, thought she could afford both. She also believes that once her needs are met, she should not waste one penny or one second on anything she doesn’t LOVE.
Not just love. LOVE. There’s a diferrence.
This system has given Eve a dazzling joy dividend. Her closet contains no clotes she doesn’t adore. Her history brims with people, place, and activities she is totally and completely crazy about. Every dollar of her fortune *way more than $700K, I assure you) has been spent on things she’ll never tire of. I’m not as disciplined as Eve, but to the extent that I imitate her, I find myself reaping maximum psychic return on my own investments.
When you assess psychic value as Eve does, ruthlessly culling all but the deepest needs and highest loves, potentially complex financial trade-offs fall into a manageable two-by-two matrix that looks like this:
|
1 Top-Dollar Items: |
2 Bottom-Dollar Items: |
|
3 Remaining-Dollar Items: |
4 No-Dollar Items: |
As you can see, I recommend you pay top dollar for things in Category 1, bottom dollar for things in category 2, and all your remaining money for things in category 3. Don’t spend a red cent for anything in category 4.
Leveraging the Matrix
Of course, each week you and I carefully assess our income, expenses, retirement needs and risk of illness, or accident, then draw up a judicious budget that we honor religiously. After that, we flap our arms and fly to Jupiter, where we meet with other financially competent people to discuss hedge funds.
Not.
Here’s the truth: Twice a year I meet with my wonderful accountant, Gary, who loves his job the way I love breathing. Gary meticulously walks me through my finances, which I think takes about an hour. I’m guessing, because after ten minutes, I fall deeply, deeply asleep. Everywhere else in the world I’m an insomniac, but Gary’s office is to me what the poppy field was to Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.
Eventually, Gary gently shakes me back into consciousness and makes sure I have a vague sense of how much I can afford to spend each month. Then he returns me to the real world, where I encounter financial decisions not as tidy equations but as chaotic demands: “Your dog needs bionic knees! Think fast!” In moments like this, I use my four-square system to make each decision. Here’s how it works:
Start by writing a list of all the things you’re spending money on. If a product or service falls in square 1 or 2 – in other words, if you really, truly need it – you must budget for it before buying anything extra. (I’d encourage you to ask yourself how things like retirement savings and health insurance will affect your quality of life; they may not be exciting, but if you’re honest, you’ll probably find you need them.) At the end of the exercise, you’lll have 2 categories of needed items: things you love and things you don’t.
Start with category 2 and purchase the need-but-don’t love items. This is where, as Gary says, you should “care enough to pay the very least.” Buy the generic medication. Use coupons. Haggle. Pinch pennies until they scream for mercy. Having saved all you can on category 2, move on to items you both need and love. In this category, buy the best things you can afford. Be lavish. Don’t worry about what other people say is a great value or a waste of money; check with yourself.
For instance, I obviously need food and of course I love it; I find there’s nothing like it when you’re hungry, but I don’t love it the way true foodies do. So I spend very little on my meals. On the other hand, I both need and love a user-friendly computer, so I invest in deluxe, state-of-the art, turbocharged models. My friend Sheila recently admitted she really needs to have a computer though she definitely doesn’t love it. She got a steal on a pre-owned model that’s a bit slower and clunkier than mine. We both made the right choice to maximize our own amount of joy.
Adding the Zest, Avoiding the Rest
If you have any money left over after purchasing all the things you absolutely, positively must have, spend it on stuff you love but don’t need. Just be careful: If you fail to do this consciously, you’ll get wishy washy with discretionary spending, blowing your $700K (or whatever) on things from altogether useless category 4.
One of my favourite cartoons captures this fabulously: In it, a bald,, ascetic Zen monk asks his fellow ascetic, “Do you ever wish you had some stuff?” people who don’t consciously renounce unneeded, unloved purchases ended up getting, you know, stuff. Often, piles of mediocre, creeping stuff that actually decreases their quality of life.
You can avoid this by making conscious love-don’t-need purchases. These choices put the zest into life. The very first thing I bought this way – back when I was an impoverished student – was a philodendron for my new, tiny, airless office. I paid $2.98 for the plant, then panicked and skipped a meal to compensate. That was just nevers: A $3 splurge did fit into my budget, and that cheerful emerald life-form brightened my mood each time I reached my office after a slog through the dark, freezing Cambridge winter (at the time, I didn’t need a car, so I spent years investigating in galoshes before investing in wheels).
These days my love-but-don’t-need treats include things like coffee shop drinks that cost more than donated plasma. Yes, I know I could home-brew for less. Some friends of mine bought an espresso machine they adore so much they accepted it as a 3rd party in their marriage. I purchased a similar machine, aiming to save money. Now I pass it on my way out to buy ludicrously overpieced mochaspressomachhiaticinos.
So…once more, with feeling: Getting the maximum amount of joy in your life depends on listening to your true self, not fads, crazes, sales pitches, or the Joneses. Today vast numbers of smart people are pursuing chunks of your $700K (or whatever that number is in 2010 dollars). They may lead you into all sorts of less-than-ideal financial decisions – and not just overspending. They may convince you to focus solely on maximizing your 401K to the exclusion of all else. But realy value isn’t about bank balances; it’s about fulfillment, gusto, delight. Whether you’re sitting on $700K or $7, invest it wisely. Bargain for your true needs, celebrate your true loves, and watch your life’s true net worth start climbing.
Martha Beck is the author of six books, including Steering by Starlight (Rodale).
~ Upcoming Events: Ladies, Did You Save This Date Yet?
I am working on the program for my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat and want it to be the best possible experience for clients.
One quick question. What would need to be included for the retreat to be really valuable for you? or Anything else you’d like to share with me?
As a gift for taking time to answer this research, send me an email: customerservice@milliondollarman.ca to receive an audio for one “white magic” I used to manifest my million dollar husband!
I suggest you mark the date now!
Can three days change your life? Yes! If you invest them learning my step-by-step magic formula for attracting my Million Dollar Man With Ease, Grace and Joy! You are going to learn the fastest way to attract and manifest not only a man who is financially free but help you to create the romantic relationship of your dreams once and for all so you can be the “Divine” feminine that you already are!
It’s all included in my LIVE Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat (DFDR), happening this November 27, 28, 29, 2010. Whether you’re single or you’re already in a relationship DFDR is the ONLY workshop where you can leap into an exciting new relationship level, giving up the exhausting masculine approach to romance that just doesn’t work for us women. My signature combination of Divine Feminine principles and proven attraction steps will work like magic to help you effortlessly manifest your relationship success — I promise!
But I must warn you now, DFDR is NOT your typical “feel hype only in a weekend” event. I will be diving deeply into your relationship “stuff.” Plus, provide you with a pleasure palace, live “Goddess Gathering” practices with me and your divine sisters, step-by-step magic, charmed secrets, my simple Signature Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps.
August, 2010 – China Holiday Trip
September 2, 2010 – First preview call for Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat, watch out for more information!
September 10 – 12, 2010 – Speaking at www.wisdomwithin.ca Women Inspiring Women Goddess Retreat
September 25 – 26, 2010 – Speaking at Women Wellness Trade Show about Relationships & Law of Attraction
September 30, 2010 – Speaking at Comox Recreation Center about Law of Attraction 101
October 20 – 24, 2010 – Attending Kendall Summerhawk’s Money, Marketing and Soul Intensive in Tucson, Arizona
November 2 – 4, 2010 – Attending Ali Brown’s SHINE event in Las Vegas, Nevada
Mark Your Calendar: November 26, 27, 28, 2010 – Leading my Divine Feminine Diamond Retreat in Beautiful British Columbia!
You can read it all here – Click this to read the newsletter: Sparkle Magic & Wisdom In Relationships Ezine
Remember to add “lourdes@speakingwithlourdes.com” to your whitelist, safelist, or address book in your e-mail program to ensure you won’t have trouble receiving future issues!
Love and Light!
Have a better and better day,
Lourdes Elardo-Gant, Magical Manifesting Mentor & International Law of Attraction Coach
P. S. If you haven’t submitted the answers to our survey, you can download the questions here:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/XLV2VGZ
P. P. S. I recommend this resource:
How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps
Are You Looking for the Magic Formula that Will Quickly Help You Manifest Your Soulmate In Less Time With Ease, Grace & Joy…All While Staying Powerfully Authentic and Creative to Who You Are?
Ladies, do you frown when you hear that you should, “Be independent and work hard?” And are you tired of your friends ignoring your vision to be able to manifest a Million Dollar Man who is also spiritually and emotionally supportive of you?
My program, How To Manifest A Million Dollar Husband In 10 Magical Steps, is now available to you as a “green-digital” audio course. Included are more than 7 hours of material and information that will guide you on the EXACT steps I myself personally took to manifest my million dollar husband…all designed and taught by me, my Enlightenment Master and colleagues who are relationship experts to help YOU discover the supportive and authentic Million Dollar Man soulmate you are divinely meant to be with.
